I am pretty sure most people have found themselves in this place where the ask this question, why does it seem like nothing is working out the way I planned it or how I envisioned it sometime ago? or It seems like nothing is working for you?
Well I am here to let you know you are not the only one thinking about it. A lot of people have actually committed suicide because of this kinds of overwhelming thoughts and feelings and some even go into depression. But the forget that it is how positive you get with your thoughts, at the end its how you get to be all positive and get the negativity out, the negative thoughts of this can’t work to oh okay this can actually work. I hope as you read through and you find this article helpful.
There are times you feel like nothing is working out the way you want them to and at the time you want them to and it can be frustrating at the same time. But with the right frame of mind and the right attitude, that frustrating situation looks ordinary and you do not need to make a big deal out of it…
I have been thinking about what’s been going on around me and I said to myself, not everything is gonna work out for me at the time I want them to, so what do I do when these things don’t work out for me when I want?
lets see some positive ways in which one can act when you are stuck in this kind of a situation.
Am pretty sure you have walked into a store or even at the market and when you pick up an item and it don’t feel right with you_ you pick up another that suits your taste right? it could even be a clothing, you see it and it didn’t fit on, you exchange it for the right one that fits perfectly. That is how you exchange things that don’t work for you to things that work better for you.
Now this same principle applies to your thinking. If you will exchange your ” I cants” for “I can” thoughts and begin to say I can do whatever I wanna do in life because \God strengthens me, you see remarkable changes begin to happen.
If you build into your character the thought that with God’s help, you are able to do whatsoever you need to do in your life, you will have more zeal and enthusiasm about facing every day. Thinking about it YOU EVEN HAVE MORE PHYSICAL ENERGY WHEN YOU THINK I CAN THOUGHTS, it helps to not dread anything that is an energy drainer.
It is never too late to begin to say “I can” , don’t think or say things like am to deep into this mess I can’t get out, or I can’t leave because of its a packed up problem after another or I can’t enjoy my life because of my personal problems. Yes I know some problems we face might be difficult but know that God can’t allow you into a situation he knows you can’t handle (see 1 Corinthians 10:13).
That means we go through them with a good attitude! And you have to believe God will help you if you ask him to. For the devil may provide one of those flashing thoughts ” you don’t deserve Gods help so don’t border asking” but you can remind him God doesn’t help us because we deserve it, but because he is a good God.
I challenge and encourage you right now to constantly believe you are able to do anything that comes your way with the help of God, and remember you can only have a good attitude towards things when you exchange your “I can’t” for “I can”.
Think about it: what “I can’t” belief in your life do you need to change for an “I can?